Category: Betrayal & Sudden Endings

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Notes from the Backside of the Mule: A Reflection on Human Systems

<div class=”substack-intro-quote”>It’s funny how a single book, dropped into my lap out of the blue, made me look backward with such curiosity.</div> Being handed a…

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Posted in Betrayal & Sudden Endings Serious Contemplations

Manipulators & Bad Actors, And I’m Not Talking About Hollywood

Freud is dead, so update your knowledge Not all manipulation is pathologic. We are all manipulators at some point in our lives. Anyone who says…

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My Baby Wrote Me A Letter

Setting the record straight on the definition of fearless Joe Cocker once sang about his baby writing him a letter. My ghosting ex, Casper, once…

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The Bottom Line ~ It’s a Simple Game of Cat & Mouse

Let’s Get a Few Things Straight So … your spouse or partner ghosted or publicly cheated on you, eh? By doing so, they made sure…

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Wait? THAT’s Who He Left You For?

As Solomon Said, It’s All Vanity Go to Google and do a casual internet search on sudden affairs and/or abandoning spouses. It won’t take you…

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Posted in Betrayal & Sudden Endings Perspectives, Opinions & Advice

Don’t Worry, We Have Express Check-In 24/7

Just Like Motel 6, We’ll Leave The Light On For You Welcome to all new arrivals. If you find you’ve been summarily dumped on your head,…

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My Baby, She Wrote Me a Letter

Written in 2015 Joe Cocker once sang about his baby writing him a letter. My ghosting ex once told me, “I hope you never decide…

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Realize Your Brain May Be Working Against You

The pains we feel when we’ve been rejected are real Did you know that when emotional attachments and love addictions become entrenched, the physical neurology…

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My 17 Year Old Shrink

Strike First. Strike Hard. Show No Mercy. There you have it: a look into the mindset of the kind of person who suddenly abandons a…

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