Tag: The Jaded Orator

Composite of three stern faces illusrating the concept of malignant manipulation.
Posted in Betrayal & Sudden Endings Serious Contemplations

Manipulators & Bad Actors, And I’m Not Talking About Hollywood

Freud is dead, so update your knowledge Not all manipulation is pathologic. We are all manipulators at some point in our lives. Anyone who says…

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Posted in About Runaway Romeo

Meeting Romeo: English 111, the Semester I’d Live to Regret

Heading for the fall Early in my first semester of nursing school, I hurriedly rushed into English class and slid into my seat. I quickly…

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Posted in The Unraveling Serious Contemplations

Under The Influence? You Decide

It’s not that other people seduce us. It’s that we so desperately crave the destruction of our own lives.” -  Katarina Stoykova-Klemer Rob was a handsome…

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Posted in The Unraveling

Comparison, The Thief of Joy

Like so many rejected spouses who’d walked Hard Road before me, I, too, got caught up in the self-defeating endeavor of comparing my radically altered…

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Posted in About/Introduction Serious Contemplations

When Erma Bombeck Approves It’s a Good Day

My journey into online writing communities During the COVID-19 confinement, I took a hiatus from the WordPress blogosphere to try something new: I joined a…

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Posted in Betrayal & Sudden Endings

My Baby Wrote Me A Letter

Setting the record straight on the definition of fearless Joe Cocker once sang about his baby writing him a letter. My ghosting ex, Casper, once…

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Posted in The Unraveling

Who Gets Custody of the Friends After The Divorce?

Written in 2013 A deep cleaning of those in your couple-sphere may be in order The custody count: one for me, one for you. Divorce is…

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Posted in Betrayal & Sudden Endings

Wait? THAT’s Who He Left You For?

As Solomon Said, It’s All Vanity Go to Google and do a casual internet search on sudden affairs and/or abandoning spouses. It won’t take you…

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